Why We Smile at Men Who Sexually Harass Us

“Why do you always engage them? If you didn’t engage them, they wouldn’t keep talking to you.”

It is nighttime and it is bitterly cold and I’m at a bus stop with my then-boyfriend. We’ve just left a performance of some sort and are trying to get home but our evening has been interrupted and it is, apparently, my fault.

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I wrote that one thing you didn’t really agree with. Find my Substack about the wild history of mental health care: Crazy/Old.

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I wrote that one thing you didn’t really agree with. Find my Substack about the wild history of mental health care: Crazy/Old.

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